Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Making your room a positve enviroment.
I would like to stress the importance of being open with the people around you. It is hard to share your feelings with someone else; however, it relives a lot of stress and uncertain feelings. During your college experience I believe that it is vital that you are open, with your roommates. For example if something your roommate is doing happens to be getting on your nerves then you should kindly explain to them that it is bothering you. A lot of times, they will respond very well and try to stop. But in order for them to stop you must make an effort to share your feelings, even when you don’t want to. Regardless of weather or not you are angry, upset, or feeling discouraged. Oftentimes I find myself over thinking things, which leaves me with crazy ideas that my roommates no longer except me, or that they want me to move out. Sometimes I just feel far away from them, or like I am unable to connect with them. When I share this with them, they almost always are feeling the same way. And together we fix the problem. Every time that I have shared my feelings with my roommates it has helped me tremendously. It put a stop to the crazy ideas running through my head, and I was able to connect with them. If you are open with your roommates, and tell them how you are feeling, it makes it easier to live with them. It prevents fighting, and gets rid of empty thoughts. Overall, it simply makes your room and positive environment.
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Oh yessss it does people. Mariya, I love you and I'm so glad we moved in together. We get along so well! Haha. <3
That's cool that you can be open with your roommates. It's nice that you or anybody else can have that kind of relationship with each other.
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